No, I am definately not a fan of hair cutting. I AM a fan of hair brushing and blow drying. I don't care for gels or hair spray. I LOVE hair that has been brushed and blow dried until it is like shiney, soft silk.
Yes, if my wife plans on keeping her hair short then I think I have found a way to enjoy the hair she has. All she has to do is agree to wash it and blow dry it before we have sex. I'll do the brushing.
As far as LONG hair, I'll never stop craving long hair. When her hair was long, I would sit behind her and brush it until it was pure wavy silk flowing down her back and then feel that against my bare skin when she would get ontop of me during sex or while she was giving me head. Nothing compares to that.