Therapy? First of all, thanks for the reply. I don't need therapy I need long hair. Unfortunately I have a major fetish for long hair. Which is why I'm in this forum. There are alot of wishes that I would want for Christmas. Among other things, I have a son and son-in-law in the military but like I said before, pertaining to this forum I would want my wife to grow her hair again. Now I don't plan on divorcing her because she cut her hair and the sex is still great when we have it but I'm just being honest when I say there's nothing that brings me pleasure like the feel of that LONG silk when we are intimate. To say "I'm not 20 anymore is a lame excuse". she has the body of a 20 year old still, so should she let herself get fat? If she just doesn't like long hair, fine, I have to live with that. But I also feel that if I don't voice my oppinion then I'm not being truthful. She has always voiced her opinion pertaining to my looks as far as shaving, clothing, HAIR, etc.. Unfortunately now it kind of falls on deaf ears. As far as hair not being a factor when it comes to attraction, everyone has their own turn-ons. I think you'd be hard pressed to find a female that wasn't turned-on by a male with a trim, some-what muscular physique. I actually still have that at my age. I work out all the time. It is alot of work. More so than taking care of long hair. I'd love to stop working out especially since I love to eat, but when I get into bed I beleive that my wife still appreciates it. Marriage is a give and take and there are sacrifices. I don't ask for alot and I have stopped asking for long hair. Oh, well. Did anyone see the article in the Ann Landers column about the wife complaining about her husband that wanted her to keep her long hair? It was titled something like, "Wife's hair is her business". I would swear my wife wrote it. Anyway, I enjoy discussing this subject. Stay safe.