Sorry to hear you are going through such hard times. I want to wish you all the best and hope that your new guy is willing to come through with you all the way. The asshole who did this to you...well...I hate to say it..and I won't..I can think of one word that goes with such malicious acts...and it begins with K... i.e. W G A C A. I don't wish it upon anybody. It's just the way it is. Take care wishing you well, L.