I am sorry to here of your problems. You sound so happy to have been involved with the long hair community. It is sad that your family could not support you, especially your husband. I iwas involved in a similar situation where a very good friend of mine, who has beautiful calf-length hair was approached by her husband who wanted her to cut it because of his own insecurity. He went so far as to attempt to cut it while she was sleeping. Luckily she is a light sleeper and immediately put a stop to it. She is no longer with him but is living a very happy life with her son and daughter(who has hair to her thighs) My friend works as a long hair model and is extremely happy that she kept the longhair that she loves. Stay in touch and YOUR HAIR IS GORGEOUS KEEP IT LONG!!!