hmm... I tried to join your yahoo group:

this was your answer

-Hello,

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-Your request to join the LongHairJoy group was not approved.

-The moderator of each Yahoo! group chooses whether to restrict

-membership in the group. Moderators who choose to restrict

-membership also choose whom to admit.

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-Please note that this decision is final and that Yahoo! Groups

-does not control group membership.

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Thanks