I would usually go out late at night and drive around town with it on. It's very exiting and liberating. As for getting a wig mailed to you,you could get a PO box at your post office for a small price. Most wigs come in a plain brown box if requested. I'm not really into the LONG wigs,shoulder length or a lil more is my preference. It has to be poker straight. Not much into curls or waves.