Hmm, I suppose one way or another, some women ARE more attractive than others, same as us men (still find it hard to believe ANYONE would look at me, even though I'm happily married).
No, whatever the beauty of a women, and whatever her hair length, I just can't stand totally self-centred personalities and pure selfishness, not met it often but generally has been either (presumably) attractive men or attractive women. Some women are just too aggressive for my taste too, even though not nasty (don't like men with that kind of character either).
Nice person, interesting personality, sharp intelligence and NOT walking slowly (!!!) are more important to me than long hair, much as I love looking at long hair.