I am wondering if you had any kind of rating system in mind for your new site? Do you plan for the content to be "G" -rated? "R"? "XXX?" Or do you perhaps have different areas for the different categories. The tastes of the visitors to this and many other boards/forums varies widely, as you have seen. Do you intend to cater to a specific target group, or to generally please a many as possible?
Good luck, and I can't wait to see what you come up with!!