That was a great way of summing things up, Anya. And "nice to meet you," by the way - we've never communicated before but I know you have many, many fans on this site. You seem to have a very sensible, common sense attitude about things, which is so pleasant and refreshing. Man, I never thought this topic would draw so much input, but I'm really glad it did. I really do feel better about all this stuff, after reading all these perspectives and learning there are a lot of guys out there in the same boat I'm in.

I'm embarrassed to admit this and I'm probably gonna get a lot of grief for this, but I'm not that familiar with your pics. I am going to search the archives for some past threads on you and see what everyone's been raving about. If your photos are as hot as your attitude is cool....I'm in for quite a treat.