WE make YOUR lives miserable? Grow up urben, you are the ones making your ladies miserable, and good for you, you just made a woman cry. And I hope all of you WHIPPED men get whats coming to you. Just my point, you cannot or will not see our side of things either, so we agree to dissagree. I'm done . You will get yours in the end. Secrets always have a way of coming out.