Read my post above. I am completely honest with my wife and she knows that I appreciate beautiful long hair - hers and that of other women. I don't do anything about it - I'm faithful in every way...AND, she also loves that I love her hair and that of other women...

If she has pictures of buff men? Let's take that a step forward... She and I have a great sex life... always have! BUT, she does enjoy her little mechanical toys also that continue her pleasure when I'm spent or she's just home alone. Do I get upset??? Nope - I enjoy that she is enjoying herself.

Gimme a break - as long as understood by both involved that it is not threatening to the relationship then it's great and fun and adds something... Guess I'm one lucky bastard!

Stu (and Linda)