well, well!! I have just the same problems. Of course telling my wife about my searching on the net is compleetly out of the question.

She even gives me hell if I just look at a girl with long hair. No whay I could tell her about this groupe.

As for the files, I use a "Maxtor OneTouch" external drive. I also hide some things at work in my office.

She knows I LOVE long thick hair, but she does not know how much I do.

I once had a girl friend with brown hair that covered her butt: I was for ever playing with her hair, and when she asked, I admitted I was first attracted to her by her hair. Our relation did not last long after that: she went to have it cut to mid-back. I was verry disapointed and I could not hide it... well we split (we were together for 3 months and I was 21 (ages ago)

I learned the lesson!!!

Nigel