No question about it. You're right. That's how it oughta be, but a lot of us married women, fell in love with women, who can't won't tolerate any sharing of interest in another female form. Certainly that is my case. I know that it would be something that could be a great turn-on for me and, therefore, a lot of fun for both of us...and totally without threat to her....but I could never sell that to her in a million years....Shakspeare, Donald Trump, and Jesus himself...combined...couldn't sell it. Its just how she is...so I wanted to know about other guys here....I mean some guys even post pics of their wives, which I'd always just assumed came with permission of the photo subject...but I've gather from Pope and tg, for example, that the wived DONT know their pics are being posted...WOW!