This is a very interesting post.

I am almost EXACTLY the same as you. My wife has long hair, knows I love long hair but she does not know that I surf the net, looking at porn sites or model sites for girls with long straight brown hair. That is my 'thing'... very long, very straight, very beautiful long hair.

My wife would FREAK!!!! It is such a shame because it is no threat, just something I enjoy.