Hi Petra,
Nice to see you in this forum..
I agree with you that this is not fair to say so bluntly : I want to cum in your bun or hair or whatever ...
I assume that you take pleasure caressing yourself with your long hair and you may easily understand that your partner be excited too when a woman caressing body, sex ...and it happend to me when
my sex was hold and wrapped by soft long hair that I cummed sometimes unintentioinnally because I was so excited and woman was an expert and in some other occasions because woman ancouraged.
It is sometimes very difficult to resist when women wear such a magnificent mane and to keep full control !!!