Please correct me if I'm mistaken, but aren't you the one who had your hair up on ebay recently?
If so, I'm glad you had a change of heart. It is so rare these days to see such a beautiful woman who has the courage and the patience and the dedication, etc. to have such beautiful long hair as yourself.
I am saddened to hear of your loss, as I understand that you have recently lost your mother to cancer. Hopefully, you can find the strength within yourself and your friends to overcome this. Know that you have opened yourself up to a new community of friends who feel for you and wish you the best.
I wish the best to you in the future with your new endeavors.