I have always wondered this. But if I had to guess, I’d say that most women with super long hair are with someone who doesn’t share our kink. I just don’t think there are too many of us out there compared to the number of women with beautiful hair. Hair doesn’t seem to be a common fetish compared to others (feet).

I think a better measure for spotting fellow hair fetishists in public is if the guy is frequently touching or playing with his girl’s hair. I know if I was with a girl with calf-length hair, I’d have a really hard time keeping my hands out of her hair, even in public