Well, I fully can understand what and why are you saying that.

I often found myself looking for "better" or "more perfect" stuff while before a good porn with just a good long haired actress aroused me enough.

However I changed a bit in my behaviour. I usually stay away from porn and also hairfetish porn: It often disappoints me if the opportunity there is not used as I think would be better.

BUT: I am still into enjoying pictures and vids of long hair. This helps me greatly with making up stuff in my head. Also erotic literature, especially long hair related, is much more exciting than a couple on cam doing hairjobs for money.

Thia ultimately lead myself into writing stories.

AND: stay away from Porn or other material to jerk to but to build up imagination brought me into confessing to my wife about my fetish. What can I say? Our sex life improved so much as she also could overcome herself and admitted her fantasies to me, which I enjoy to fullfill.

Best regards