I feel your pain. Let me share my recent experience. I recently met someone who literally looked like my dream girl. Absolutely gorgeous red wavy hair way past butt. I mean, hair has never been a deciding factor for me but it sure is a cherry on top of the cake kinda deal. She was smart, funny and had really pretty eyes. Our first conversation lasted some 8 hours and felt as if we've been pals for a long time. I made her laugh so much at one point she was begging for me to stop.
Few days go by and just when I finally thought I hit jackpot, boom! She turned out to be nothing more than a cheap attention whore when the true colors emerged. Spoke like a saint, behaved like a whore.
Once the dust settled, I couldn't help but laugh at the cosmic joke life threw at me. This story may not actually help you but I just wanted to share it with the community.