First of all, if you searched "partner" or "gf" or "wife" in the search bar you'd easily find tons of posters talking about their experiences who are clearly not virgins and clearly not single.

Secondly, using myself as an example, I'm in my late 20s and have a gf who knows about my fetish and willingly grew her own hair from her shoulders to her waist to please me.

Even though I almost never post here and thoroughly enjoy making love to her, I still come here to see what other people's experiences are and get new ideas for what to try in bed.

It's possible to fully engage with your fetish while being in a healthy relationship, and the fact that you can't see that is incredibly sad to me.