WOW - what a memory of a lifetime this is! You are certainly a lucky man.
When I was young I found DJF unbelievably sexy, out of this world, but somehow could never think of her as a nice person then.
Now that I´m older, and after a lifetime of journalism, I have come to realize that many people who have achieved something truly extraordinary (like singer/songwriter legends James Taylor, Bruce Cockburn, and Gordon Lightfoot - who I really got to interview more than once) are actually very modest, warm, gracious, welcoming persons who seriously work at their craft to continuously refine it, without the least trace of arrogance.
So today I can easily relate to postings here that have described Anya, Leona, and now DJF, as in this thread - despite their absolute killer sex appeal and their sure awareness of their effect on men - as very nice ladies and fun to be with, which I don´t mean in a superficial way at all.