I would encourage her to grow her phantastic hair even longer. And I would strongly recommend you get a life.

Although in some cases the latter measure is utterly hopeless, it might still do you some good.

As a divorced long-time friend (female) of my mom´s once clearly told an idiot who was anonymously molesting her with obscene phone calls: "It´s all very good and fine what you are telling me. But I think you either lack something very basic in your head or between your legs." And that was the end of those calls.