Yes...I thought I was living a fantasy too...until it went south...

You know...you bring up a very good point...and one I have not thought of thus far (and I've spent a LOT of time thinking MANY scenarios!) - whether she may have been pregnant in the past. I know she was sexually active before, as was I. But we are still quite early in the relationship for big revelations like that I think...if indeed something like that happened... And it's not something I can easily bring up either.

The last few days I have been trying to be more attentive in other ways. Still no sexual action for almost 2 weeks now. But I have been sharing with her the research I have done, and also links of how others experience this too and enjoy it (like the link that was shared earlier). She is not as dismissive of it as she was initially. So I'm hoping.

Thanks for your reply and advise - I appreciate it.