Alright... So my conundrum is this:

Dated a girl for like 4 years, broke up with her last year. I'm in my late 30s now and I've noticed my hairfetish has gotten weirder and weirder over time. Being single for the last year is kind of freaking me the fuck out and I don't know how to properly appease myself to get it out of my system. Right now I'm doing the online dating thing and I'm curious how some of you guys manage (the few of you actually getting laid on here) as far as dating on the internet goes. Are you guys straight up with it? Try to upkeep good looks and spring it on them after? I have seriously no idea, it kind of boggles me because I feel kinda creepy advancing on random girls I don't know on dating sites. Just looking for some answers...