well, shes is herself, we're not in a monogamous relationship, but really good friends and intimate indeed, but she is her own person, and needs an easier way to get by, I am not in a postion to help her alot myself or I would for sure, but income is hard to come by in todays economy, and shes just a real swwetheart, whos not afraid of exchanging with peole, so its not me co=ercing anything