I've had better luck going to a twelve step meeting which addresses this problem with others. The benefits of these meetings is coming out of the shadows. Learning not to lie anymore, losing the baggage of shame and guilt and fear. All this stuff is addressed. Recovery doesn't happen over night but it does happen if you have the desire to. I recommend S.L.A.A. which is Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, or S.A. which is Sexaholics Anonymous, and finally S.A.A. (Sex Addicts Anonymous). They are all pretty similar and follow the same principles as A.A. I recommend this highly and hope that someone really hurting with this obsession of sex can get the help they need. Best wishes, Mark.

P.S. Each fellowship has it's own website. Just Google the name.

Press "meetings" to try and find a meeting. Also, S.A. has a group forum where you can post things. It is a Yahoo Group type in SA.