Anya, being secure enough in myself also makes it good to surrender to that kind of control. haha. I would help her with her hair like brushing it anytime she wanted and helping her trim it (just a bit!). And I would "let" her control me with her long silk...we both liked it. She could practically lead me around the room with her long silk. I sure didn't mind. She also loved the powerful loads she could easily get out of me with her hair. And with her waist length silk that was pretty often no matter what hairstyle she used on me.
I wonder how does it feel to know there are millions of dreams about you?