Why don't you send her a *polite* email and ask her about the possibilities? Maybe you can also pay her by PayPal, you don't need a credit card for that (you can send money to PP directly from your bank account). Or there might be other possibilities.

I really don't see any difference in sharing her material publicly on a/the forum or directly to you via whatever means. Both are equally illegal, so don't even ask about these things here, please!

Here is her email address, taken from the privacy page on longhairdivas.com. You could have easily found that yourself

leonalonghairdiva@gmail.com

Good luck!

ninja