For really sexy wrestling, I recommend going to youporn.com, and searching for "ultimate surrender." There are about 20 vids. These are adult performers wrestling each other. The first part is hype, the next part's wrestling. Their hair is often up or in a pony or braid, and I've never seen any of the women go for the hair. But they can and do tear off the opponents bikinis and grab their lady-parts. At the end the loser has to "surrender" and let the winner do what she wants with her. There's a lot of Strap-On action, all quite explicit. I recommend anything that has "Tigerlily" in it.