I've been with a lady who has hair to her knees. That was really amazing as you might understand, almost unreal after longing for it for years. We still stay in touch but we live in different parts of the world so we don't see each other that often. I guess the best strategy to find someone with really long hair is to be honest and proud about it and not compromise or feel weird about yourself for being attracted to it. Most ladies appreciate honesty and sometimes get inspired to grow their hair is they see how sincere you are. If you meet someone who is reluctant to grow her her don't fight over it, just let it go. There are plenty of long haired ladies in the world so there's no need to fret Yeah I know, I'm a positive thinker. /Tom S