Come on guyes,go buy a good shampoo and conditioner for your wives / girlfriends,,,and pamper your lady's hair yourself !!!
I am sure she doesn't mind !!!
Have a look at
groups.yahoo.com/group/elzoefslonghairpage/?yguid=208294962
and see what results we have 
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Take care of her hair if she doesn't like to do so herself.
AND GET RID OF THOSE FLAT IRONS FOR CRYING OUT LOUD !!!!!
We all know that heating the hair DOES damage it.
HELP YOUR LADIES !!!!!!