I agree Danny a couple people have said they are glad I changed my hair because it looked to stringy before, Or they say oh you never should of changed.

I'm thinking:

what are you saying? I look bad then or even now and why care about my hair style?

When I notice the hair they sport maybe it isn't what I would find to be so stylish.

It is hurtful when someone says I don't like when you wore this or that style because your thinking "oh my gawd I ran away all day looking stupid"

and then you second guess yourself all the time

.... I try to not listen and just do what I like but in the back of your mind your like "man did I look like a total tool or what ? "