Yes, I know exactly what you mean. My beautiful wife has great looking hair complete with bangs. When she straightens it with a flat iron, it looks fantastic. Unfortunately she now brushes it once in the mornng and runs all day with it looking like a fuzzy mess. I have tried to hint to her and reinforce how sexy she looks when she takes care of it, but she shrugs it off. Now she is talking of cutting it. I guess if she isnt going to take care of it, she might as well cut it shorter. Some women just don't have a clue do they?