I just have to say, girlfriend, that you are a gift from heaven. Every guy on the forum dreams of having someone like you cross their path.
Anyway, as for uploading pictures, there a several here that will offer how-to's. I know you have to store them, digitally, on your computer.
There's a product called OJON that you should investigate. It is a natural conditioner only found in central America. It is sold in beauty supply stores. It will do wonders for your hair. My wife uses it and the difference is breath catching.
I personally feel the most sexual presentation you could strive for is to have you hair grow to all one length and occasionally allow it to fall across your face from a side part. You already do this, so you know what I mean. Locate a trusted hair person who can give you frequent "tipping" of your hair to remove split ends and it will grow much faster. Looking forward to your pictures when you have them. Try to send me an email and attach the picture file to it. I'll let you know if it came through successfully.
John