I once came in a woman's hair by accident. I was mortified! The hair job was just so good, I lost my usual pretty good control. She however didn't mind it. I would find it disrespectful and ungrateful to do with out they're wanting it to happen. But that goes with any other sex act. It's a mutual thing.
I too have to go along with the "To each their own" theme.
Anya, as usual, you have had good things to say. Thank you.
Minstrel