Great IRL and Dream! I wish I would have dreams like what you described... My sleeping moments are so boring in comparison!
With the blonde wavy ass-length haired girl, since she has already let you play with it, and also casually flirted with you with her hair, have you thought / tried to take things further to the next level? From what you have described, I think it's definitely worth the risk, and in my opinion you have a fairly high chance of success!
Good luck!