Anya,
So sorry for what you're going through, you know, the best people are people who just accept you for who you are, those that fantasize are needy in awkward ways. Most all of us have appreciated all you've done for the long hair community and especially your creativity in bringing us the answers to our ideals of beauty. "Water off a duck's back" when it comes to the idiots, just love those who love you honestly and sincerely. I agree with your awesome fans who believe the best is ahead for you.
Thank you for all you've brought all of us. You're still the best.