So for the past four months, I've had a girlfriend with decently long (leaning towards mid back but not quite there. Long but not long enough IMO) super silky hair. She always let play with her hair outside of sex. I was constantly stroking it, rubbing it on me, etc, and early on she noted that I was "obsessed with" her hair. As we got more comfortable I began incorporating hair play into sex, making sure that it was placed in ways I liked and she then began to know to place her hair out for me to stroke while we fucked, or that I would definitely be touching it as I came in her.

So fast forward a bit. I've subtly gotten hairjobs from her throughout this time. Like put myself in positions when we were making out or cuddling to slowly rub my dick with her hair, but nothing fully explicit. So before we meet up this weekend, she spends 3 days telling me she is ready to do "everything and anything" with me. She wants me to do "whatever I want" to her body and just wants to make me happy. At this point, I think finally, I can fully express my hair fetish and have it accepted.

So she's giving me a blowjob, and I tell her to rub my dick with her hair. She takes a very little bit of her hair and puts it on my dick for 2 seconds before removing it and blowing me. I couldn't even feel the hair. So after a minute, I go from behind her, kiss her, and begin rubbing my dick into her thick her exactly how I wanted to always do it. It felt SO good, better than I imagined.

After about 10-15 seconds, RIGHT as I was really getting into it, she stops me, tells me it is weird, and that she doesn't want to do it. When I bring up how she said I can do anything that makes me happy, she says "anything but that." Tells me that I shouldn't use her for her hair, but I should use her for her mouth and pussy instead...(just wow on this VERBATIM quote btw).

I no longer feel sexually comfortable with her. She doesn't accept my sexual self. As nice as her hair is, it isn't so great that I can never find a girl like this again, and not being able to do what I want to it is torture anyway. I feel like I should break up with her now, as a lack of sexual trust (with many other tumultuous aspects of the relationship) is pretty bad. I'm thinking maybe I should bring it up one more time, try and explain how much I like it and why I don't think it's weird, but if I'm met with resistance, just end it right there. What do my fellow fetishists think?